Rocking The Boat

  Women's Choice - The "Real" Choice

Posted September 19, 2019  |  Filed under Social Issues

In this article I want to address one of the reasons why people fight for abortion - women's choice. Don't get me wrong, I do support women's choice - HOWEVER - Let me explain.

There has been a lot of controversy regarding abortion these days on the news. I have already expressed my opinion on abortion in my article titled "My Take on Abortion". If you have not read it, I strongly suggest you read it. It provides a good perspective. Here is the link: Read My Take on Abortion. If you don't want to read it - the bottom line is that I don't support it and I provide some very good reasons for it. So let's move on to this article.

Those who fight for abortion say that it is the "women's choice" to have one. They say by taking away abortion you are taking away women's choice. I strongly disagree! As I said above I am for women's choice - HOWEVER - when you have an abortion you are making the choice at the wrong time. Let me clarify. If someone has an abortion, they are saying that they don't want to have or raise a kid. I can respect that. But wouldn't it be better to make that choice "before" you make the baby. If you don't want to have a baby, then don't make one. Make the choice "before" it is too late. It's that simple! Don't kill the baby! And chances are you already have made that choice before having sex with someone. You just choose to ignore the choice you made. If you are someone that doesn't have the willpower to make that choice at the right time and act on it before it is too late, then I feel bad for you.

Here is another thought - if you have made that choice and act on it before it is too late, then there are two very good reasons for that. First, and most importantly, you are not killing a baby. And second, you don't have to go through an invasive medical procedure that could put you at risk. An abortion can kill you. There have been people that have died from abortions. Also, an abortion that has not gone good can make it to where you can never have a baby. And if you ever want to have kids, or meet a really good guy that wants to have kids, you would have messed that up. Additionally, there are a lot of good guys that would not want to be with someone that has had an abortion in their past. I'm one of them.

Now - I am not going to let the guys off the hook. You have just as much of a choice in this process as well. If you don't want to have kids, or if you are not man enough to take the responsibility to raise a kid, then you should keep it in your pants. And please don't force her to get an abortion because you cannot be a man. This happens all the time - and when some women decide to keep the baby, many men run off. That is why there are so many fatherless households in the country these days. So guys - grow up and man up!

The bottom line is, if you don't want to have a kid, or want to wait to have kids, please make that decision early on and act on it - before it is too late!

Author: GH

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